The biggest reason why your New Year resolution fails|「1年の計は元旦にあり」が失敗する最大の理由

Many of you may have already set up your goals for the year ahead.

And if you allow me to suddenly throw cold water on you, there are cold, objective data in many countries that show statistically speaking, 80% to 90% of them will not be realized. Forever.

One reason is that they do not “emanate from within”. Wanting to be rich, to be famous, to get promoted, or to have a girlfriend… are often goals that somehow come from a general major value system that is deduced not from oneself but from the general public. Furthermore, it is even worse as they often mistake it as their true desire but actually simply by comparing it with the outside world. You wan to get promoted THAN your peers, or to be richer THAN them? Hell, it’s a work of comparison!

Then, ASPIRATION is overwhelmingly absent. As a result, your motivation is not backed by your PASSION. It can’t be, can it? To use a metaphor, it could be like building a beautiful car at a good factory, but forgetting to put in the engine.

You need to “engineer the inside” of the car, not the “outside. Please read on for some tips.

「1年の計は元旦にあり」と言いまして、今年の分を既に設定された方も多いのではないでしょうか 。




やはり「外側」ではなく、「内側をエンジニアリング」する必要があるんですよね 。いくつかのヒントが書かれていますので、どうぞお読みあれ。

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